
Domestic Violence
Domestic violence refers to any behavior that involves the use of physical, emotional, or sexual force or the threat of such force within an intimate relationship. It can take many forms, including physical or verbal abuse, controlling, and financial abuse. Domestic violence is a serious issue that affects individuals and families from all walks of life.
Domestic Violence Prevention
Understanding and having knowledge of the many types of abuse as well as the various ways that abuse appears, and interconnects can prepare you to respond to situations safely for yourself and others. Possible signs of abuse:
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Physical Abuse – punch, slap, kick, bite, choke, use of weapons against you, driving dangerously with you in the car, preventing you from leaving, throwing objects at you, denying you necessary medical treatment.
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Emotional and Verbal Abuse – constant name calling or criticizing, acting possessive, isolation from friends and family, monitoring your activities without your knowledge, gaslighting, humiliation, attempting to maintain sole control over what you wear or do, blame, accusations, damaging belongings.
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Sexual Abuse – insults you in a sexual manner, forcing or manipulating you into sexual acts without consent, ignores your feelings, intentionally pass on a STD/STI. Sexual Coercion – reacting negatively if you say “no”, continuous pressure to give in after saying “no”, giving you drugs or alcohol to “loosen up”, implying you owe them something sexually for a gift, or action.
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Financial Abuse – denying access to your money, closely monitored allowance, maxing out credit cards / open accounts in your name without permission, refusing to contribute in the household or provide money for necessities or shared expenses.
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Digital Abuse – controlling who you can follow, what you can post, who you can talk to, sending toxic or threatening emails or texts, demanding passwords, checking your phone, using GPS to monitor and track location, impersonating you online to get you in trouble or embarrass you, making you feel like you can be separated from your phone due to angering them.
Did You Know?
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Domestic violence reports increased by 10% between 2019 and 2020 (NCADV, 2022).
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Nearly 3 in 10 women (29%) and 1 in 10 men (10%) in the US have experienced rape, physical violence, and/or stalking by a partner and reported it having a related impact on their functioning.
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Just under 15% of women (14.8%) and 4% of men in the US have been injured as a result of intimate partner violence that included rape, physical violence, and/or stalking by an intimate partner.
Women ages 18 to 24 and 25 to 34 generally experience the highest rates of intimate partner violence.
Where to Report
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If you are in immediate danger, Call 911!
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Report Anonymously to Crime Stoppers at 1-800-SPEAKUP
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Your Local Police Department
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National Domestic Violence Hotline available 24/7
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Call or TTY @ 1-800-799-7233
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If you are unable to speak safely, log onto thehotline.org or text LOVEIS to 22522
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Articles
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Center for Violence Prevention - Domestic Violence & Child Abuse
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Dolan & Zimmerman - Domestic Violence Statistics: A Comprehensive Investigation
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Mayo Clinic - Domestic Violence Against Women: Recognize Patterns & Seek Help
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McLean Hospital - Understanding the Impact of Domestic Violence
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National Center for Health Research - The Cycle of Domestic Violence
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National Domestic Violence Hotline - Domestic Violence Support
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National Coalition Against Domestic Violence - Domestic Violence
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Turning Point - Empowering Survivors-Domestic, Sexual Violence & Human Trafficking
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Women's Law - Domestic Violence Shelters and Support Resources
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2026 Domestic Abuse Death Review Team Annual Report - York’s Max Country 104.9
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Victims Most Vulnerable to Domestic Violence | Psychology Today
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DVAM 2026: With Survivors, Always | Domestic Violence Awareness Project
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Warning of domestic violence surge, advocates seek state dollars | WOODTV.com
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Opinion | There’s a Pattern of Abuse in America - The New York Times
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About Intimate Partner Violence | Intimate Partner Violence Prevention | CDC
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Domestic violence is more common than you might think | OHSU
